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  1. #761

    First one.

    Quote Originally Posted by BackwoodsBum  [View Original Post]
    I don't post often but I've been in the hobby for a long time. If any of you remember the old Nashville Escort Review Board about 15 years ago I was "Nashcruiser" who ran that message boards. I've started getting back into things on a limited basis and have been on SA for a little over a year now. During that time I've had mixed results. Here are some of the recent ones.

    First of avoid this girl like the plague!

    https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...2-e012e8aedb65

    She is a a scam artist who has used at least 5 different names in the last few months. I've reported her each time but when they shut one down she just creates another. She is also very close to her favorite uncle.

    Second this one is pretty good but I wouldn't repeat. She looks much worse in person and hygiene is not great.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-5dae9e969e40

    This one is another scammer. The pictures match her Facebook page but she wants money for pictures and videos but always makes excuses for not meeting. She sent some sample pics that were obviously not the same girl in the pictures on her Facebook page.
    The link is dead on the first one.

  2. #760

    Kristin9057.

    Quote Originally Posted by BackwoodsBum  [View Original Post]
    I don't post often but I've been in the hobby for a long time. If any of you remember the old Nashville Escort Review Board about 15 years ago I was "Nashcruiser" who ran that message boards. I've started getting back into things on a limited basis and have been on SA for a little over a year now. During that time I've had mixed results. Here are some of the recent ones.

    First of avoid this girl like the plague!

    https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...2-e012e8aedb65

    She is a a scam artist who has used at least 5 different names in the last few months. I've reported her each time but when they shut one down she just creates another. She is also very close to her favorite uncle.

    Second this one is pretty good but I wouldn't repeat. She looks much worse in person and hygiene is not great.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-5dae9e969e40

    This one is another scammer. The pictures match her Facebook page but she wants money for pictures and videos but always makes excuses for not meeting. She sent some sample pics that were obviously not the same girl in the pictures on her Facebook page.
    I had met with Kristin once. I thought she was very cute and very much into the sex. Didn't notice any hygiene problems and price point was very fair.

  3. #759

    Miscellaneous reports

    I don't post often but I've been in the hobby for a long time. If any of you remember the old Nashville Escort Review Board about 15 years ago I was "Nashcruiser" who ran that message boards. I've started getting back into things on a limited basis and have been on SA for a little over a year now. During that time I've had mixed results. Here are some of the recent ones.

    First of avoid this girl like the plague!

    https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...2-e012e8aedb65

    She is a a scam artist who has used at least 5 different names in the last few months. I've reported her each time but when they shut one down she just creates another. She is also very close to her favorite uncle.

    Second this one is pretty good but I wouldn't repeat. She looks much worse in person and hygiene is not great.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-5dae9e969e40

    This one is another scammer. The pictures match her Facebook page but she wants money for pictures and videos but always makes excuses for not meeting. She sent some sample pics that were obviously not the same girl in the pictures on her Facebook page.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...8-92b3be70bbd9

    This one is hotter in person but her financial expectations are much higher than normal. Fun once but I wouldn't repeat.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-c9956bd4761b

    Hope this helps!

  4. #758

    Thanks for the correction

    Quote Originally Posted by FarFarAway  [View Original Post]
    Yeah, this isn't right. You can't do anything for free. . .
    Thanks, I had forgotten the specifics of when I first joined a while back. At that time it would let you send a few messages, but not read any replies. If I tried to put contact info in the message the whole thing would get replaced with a leering generic note, "You caught my attention. Are you interested in an arrangement?

    If the company had been a little less tight-assed I think they would have made a better first impression to a new user.

    -Jeepster1.

  5. #757
    Quote Originally Posted by SirCumference  [View Original Post]
    I agree completely on both the RVA thread and the amount of work. I enjoy the "hunt" as it were, so if you like that, you'll likely find SA fulfilling. If you enjoy the end game, then pros are much less hassle.
    Exactly, and I'd just reiterate that if you use to find pros who use it, it's a lot of work for that when they can be contacted elsewhere.

    And if you happen to hook a newbie and you've set hourly rates and stuff in advance, you've probably screwed yourself and worsened the experience. I had a fun, pretty 20 yo newbie college student that used to drive an hour to meet me and would usually stay for 3 or 4 hours, and that was for what pros usually get for a rushed hour. That is an extreme example but I almost always spend at least an hour and a half or two hours with them if I like them, they basically leave when I'm done.

    In years on there the only time I've ever even brought up time is when I was worried that the girl was more a UTR than an amateur, and I brought it up to be clear that I did NOT want a rushed hourly situation with a fixed time. Never talk in terms of hours or hourly rates on there. JM2 C.

  6. #756

    MeganBl__re cash and dash star.

    Have now seen her twice.

    First time 1/5 hours late.

    Second time 35 minutes late.

    Third time no show.

    Fourth time no show.

  7. #755
    Quote Originally Posted by WarlockKy  [View Original Post]
    TNwinestfine.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-a312ee05a910

    501 7 X7 8 X98.

    Fake pics and asks for a PayPal.
    Did you report "her".

    They seem to take them off SA if a few of us report them.

  8. #754

    Sa

    I agree completely on both the RVA thread and the amount of work. I enjoy the "hunt" as it were, so if you like that, you'll likely find SA fulfilling. If you enjoy the end game, then pros are much less hassle.

    Quote Originally Posted by TomDickNHarry  [View Original Post]
    As another resource, go to the Richmond, Virginia forum and look under their SeekingArrangement thread. They have FAQ's and thousands and thousands of pages of input from people all over the country.

    In general, another thing I'd say is that it's a lot of work. If you're looking for a pro experience and approach it like you're dealing with pros, you're going to spend more time, money and effort than you would otherwise. The pro girls on there routinely get more from naive guys on SA than they get from their BP ads and are paying 2 x for pros.

    If you want girls that aren't pro's and don't mind a lot of time investment, it's a no brainer. If you want a supply of hourly rate gals it's not the most efficient way to do it in my view, but a few of those girls are on there. If that's what you want, I'd just email all the girls on the site and some will say yes though the vast majority will not respond at all.

  9. #753
    Quote Originally Posted by Jeepster1  [View Original Post]
    Have you tried the free account yet? The free version gives you a few free message attempts, if I recall. They usually also offer a discount for the first month of paid service.

    I haven't paid yet, but am contemplating doing so. Some of the guys here will pay for a month, make several initial contacts, then revert to unpaid.

    It seems like a fertile field, especially if you look beyond the GPS Homecoming Queen types.

    -Jeepster1.
    Yeah, this isn't right. You can't do anything for free. But, if you can't afford $90 to try it, you can't afford allowance for any decent girl there. It is important to note, based on the other posts in this thread right now, that you should NEVER have any discussion of specifics on the SA site itself- it violates their TOS and they will kick you off if there is much discussion at all of time, money, or time+$. Do any and all of that on another venue. And, my personal recommendation, I am sure seconded by my bowl brother on here, Tom. , is that you should defer this discussion for as long as possible. It's the slow, cheap way. I am working a POT who has never brought up $, has graciously accepted a few free coffees and gift cards, and is dying to get to the FC w / me. She's a pretty smart 19 YO, I am more than thrice her age.

  10. #752

    Sa

    As another resource, go to the Richmond, Virginia forum and look under their SeekingArrangement thread. They have FAQ's and thousands and thousands of pages of input from people all over the country.

    In general, another thing I'd say is that it's a lot of work. If you're looking for a pro experience and approach it like you're dealing with pros, you're going to spend more time, money and effort than you would otherwise. The pro girls on there routinely get more from naive guys on SA than they get from their BP ads and are paying 2 x for pros.

    If you want girls that aren't pro's and don't mind a lot of time investment, it's a no brainer. If you want a supply of hourly rate gals it's not the most efficient way to do it in my view, but a few of those girls are on there. If that's what you want, I'd just email all the girls on the site and some will say yes though the vast majority will not respond at all.

    Quote Originally Posted by BoroMan  [View Original Post]
    I would like feedback from Senior Members and others. I am contemplating SA membership and would like to know if its really worth admission price.

    I'm not looking for true SD / SB relationship, more like pay and play.

    Boroman.

  11. #751

    SA Tips

    You'll pretty much need a paid membership for at least a month. I usually develop enough contacts in a paid month that I can shut down my account after other means of contact are exchanged. When those have all run dry--usually somewhere in the year range--I start fresh with a new account.

    I've found that, as with most "dating" sites on the internet, that the majority of contacts are fakes, flakes, or pros exploring a new venue. I'd say I run about a 10-20% conversion rate for a meet & greet, and at least half of those pan out into at least one encounter in private between consenting adults. You can either nurture the relationship into an ongoing one (which I prefer) or look for one-timers depending on your personal desires.

    Usually, I've found SA to be cheaper than pros, typically less mechanical, and frequently much more enjoyable. Whether it's worth it or not depends on your expectations and your ability to separate the good from the bad.

    In the parlance, you're looking for a "pay per meeting" arrangement rather than an allowance. While I've found an allowance to be more up-front expensive, I've usually found that I've gotten many more sessions with the allowance than I would have with a pro.

    Watch out for sob stories, Golden Pussy Syndrome, and requests for money up front, keep your personal info private (you're a hobbyist, so you know this anyway), and be familiar with Backpage so you can spot the girls who advertise in both places.

    Happy hunting!

    Quote Originally Posted by BoroMan  [View Original Post]
    I would like feedback from Senior Members and others. I am contemplating SA membership and would like to know if its really worth admission price.

    I'm not looking for true SD / SB relationship, more like pay and play.

    Boroman.

  12. #750
    Quote Originally Posted by TomDickNHarry  [View Original Post]
    Don't talk in terms of hourly on there, unless you're dealing with a pro, and there are some on there (more than in the past) but it's not the norm at all. Talk amounts but not times, most of these girls will stay with you a couple of hours or more if you want.

    There are pros on there and they will talk time like that, but don't even bring it up. You're seriously shorting yourself if so when you find someone newer to it or more UTR than pro, and may scare people off.
    Good point. Doing that (hitting up the new girls with "How much to fuck you?" messages straight out of the box) ends up scaring many of them away. Treat it more like setting up a date / starting a friendship and so on and it will work much better for you. Otherwise, you are better off just sticking to BP for free, I'd think.

  13. #749

    SA is not backpage

    Quote Originally Posted by TnDude1  [View Original Post]
    It has worked out good for me thus far. I too am interested in an hourly arrangement. .
    Don't talk in terms of hourly on there, unless you're dealing with a pro, and there are some on there (more than in the past) but it's not the norm at all. Talk amounts but not times, most of these girls will stay with you a couple of hours or more if you want.

    There are pros on there and they will talk time like that, but don't even bring it up. You're seriously shorting yourself if so when you find someone newer to it or more UTR than pro, and may scare people off.

  14. #748

    Giving it a shot

    Quote Originally Posted by Jeepster1  [View Original Post]
    Have you tried the free account yet? The free version gives you a few free message attempts, if I recall. They usually also offer a discount for the first month of paid service.

    I haven't paid yet, but am contemplating doing so. Some of the guys here will pay for a month, make several initial contacts, then revert to unpaid.

    It seems like a fertile field, especially if you look beyond the GPS Homecoming Queen types.

    -Jeepster1.
    Just went ahead the other day and paid to join. Have done so in another city and had some modest success. Made a few initial contacts, but nothing concrete. Will keep you updated to any progress or any UTR's I find along the way!

  15. #747
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    Posts: 633

    Dakota

    I personally had a really really bad experience with Dakota. The first time was okay, she was kinda bitchy and many rules.
    Second time I caught her shooting up in my restroom with her girlfriend.
    Another Monger has claimed she's a cash and dash.

    Stay away.

    Rrayr.
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