Worldwide escort directory

Thread: The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

+ Add Report
Page 1 of 30 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 449
This blog is moderated by Thresh
  1. #449

    They finally got me

    Welp, after 18 months of free SA, paying the $80 for only a single month, they finally fixed the bug.

    I rejoined LOL.

  2. #448

    Maybe a glitch or loophole

    Quote Originally Posted by JohnHandCock  [View Original Post]
    If I'm not mistaken only paid membership can hide the viewing, favoring info and not be seen. I also think those options only work while your a paid member. If membership lapses then the ones you favored will see you have favored them. If your not a paid member the site is pretty useless.
    Well my lurking profile doesn't even have a user name yet, so it's still useful to separate my lurking from my real profile. I only use it for lurking and taking paper notes on pots that I may contact later if and when I pull the trigger on getting a paid membership on my real profile. Also I did try to favorite a pot from my lurking profile and got an error message stating others can't "discover" me, until I complete the basic information on it.

  3. #447
    Quote Originally Posted by ArmyNiceGuy  [View Original Post]
    Hey gents, so I've kinda thought about taking a dip into the sugar bowl for about 6 months now and for the last few weeks I've been doing some serious research on it. I've read this forum from post 1 and am now working on the Richmond forum. I find the idea of being able to take a smoking hot coed out for a night on the town and an overnight of GFE for about the same cost (allowance, not counting entertainment cost) of an hour with an agency, or even a high-end BP girl, to be quite exciting.

    Any how I kinda stumbled on this trick I thought I would share. I've had my SA profile for a couple months (unpaid) and only just recently completed it, only then did the hits, messages, and favorites start coming in. Once completed though, pots could see if I was checking them out too. With all the new girls showing up and all the ones I'm interested in, I can barely keep them all straight, and I don't want to favorite a bunch of them since I'm not quite ready to pull the trigger on the paid membership. In order to surf and lurk stealthily I made a second profile that I have left incomplete. Now I can check out and compare pots as much as I want without them ever getting a hit.

    Hope this helps, and thanks to all you brothers for opening my eyes to the sugar bowl.
    If I'm not mistaken only paid membership can hide the viewing, favoring info and not be seen. I also think those options only work while your a paid member. If membership lapses then the ones you favored will see you have favored them. If your not a paid member the site is pretty useless.

  4. #446

    Tip for surfing SA

    Hey gents, so I've kinda thought about taking a dip into the sugar bowl for about 6 months now and for the last few weeks I've been doing some serious research on it. I've read this forum from post 1 and am now working on the Richmond forum. I find the idea of being able to take a smoking hot coed out for a night on the town and an overnight of GFE for about the same cost (allowance, not counting entertainment cost) of an hour with an agency, or even a high-end BP girl, to be quite exciting.

    Any how I kinda stumbled on this trick I thought I would share. I've had my SA profile for a couple months (unpaid) and only just recently completed it, only then did the hits, messages, and favorites start coming in. Once completed though, pots could see if I was checking them out too. With all the new girls showing up and all the ones I'm interested in, I can barely keep them all straight, and I don't want to favorite a bunch of them since I'm not quite ready to pull the trigger on the paid membership. In order to surf and lurk stealthily I made a second profile that I have left incomplete. Now I can check out and compare pots as much as I want without them ever getting a hit.

    Hope this helps, and thanks to all you brothers for opening my eyes to the sugar bowl.

  5. #445

    Thanks for the input

    I am going to be very upfront about my marital status. But I am going to play MUCH tighter with my identity. If I practice in totally different city, use Google voice, no last names, etc, I should be able to have some more fun.

    Here's a tip on protecting your identity. A couple of years ago, I met a gal on Craigslist. I forgot that the pic I sent her was also on my LinkedIn, so she was able to do an image search and scope me out before I divulged anything. It was fine, she wasn't trying to scam me and was just being curious. But definitely don't ever send anything that stands even a remote chance of pinging back in a web search.

    By the same token, I've found that most girls on SA will not want to give any information for the first couple of rounds. But 9 times out of 10, once you get the digits, it's to their real phone tied to their social media. I have gone on M&Gs several times with a wealth of information on the girl I was meeting, including intel about their likes and dislikes that I'd drop to my advantage.

  6. #444
    Quote Originally Posted by Robert1744  [View Original Post]
    Hey ya'll -.

    I have dabbled in the SD world with both good and bad experiences, but I've been out of it for about a year and thinking of jumping back in.

    As I do that, I am also perusing Secret Benefits in addition to SA. Here's the thing, my SB profile is literally empty. There's no pic, no blurb, nothing. And yet, I get a bunch of messages from various young women initiating contact. Can I surmise that if the SB women are initiating things with nothing to go on, they're a little more experienced in the game, perhaps even semi-pro? When my SA profile was empty at first, this never happened over there. I was curious if there were any general differences between the women on the two sites.

    Also, since I last dabbled in the arrangement world, I got married. It's great, but I just can't stop that young pussy. Do any other of you married guys find that listing your marital status hurts your chances or decreases the opportunities? If I do proceed with another arrangement, I am going to pursue it in another town, as I firmly believe you don't shit where you eat.

    Any thoughts on doing this stuff while married (apart from judgement and psychoanalysis) would be welcomed. Thanks!
    Google the review s on SB. Post your status and the girls who don't see married men won't contact you. Most don't really care if the arrangement is good.

  7. #443
    Coffee _lover 6.

    Sweet, fun to talk to, and cute girl, but she prob won't meet you. I got some nudes out of her tho, and they're 100% legit. I know bc I found her socials. On her twitter, back in 2016, she posts a pic about "scamming sugar daddies," up until the point they want to meet.

    If you find a girl's socials, I highly suggest doing a search for "sugar" on their profile. Lots of these girls come from the tum blr landscape I've found, where there's a lot of info about how to scam us.
    So just beware what you're getting into.

    Edit: I removed the screen cap of that twitter post. If anyone would like to see it, just PM me.

  8. #442

    Does being married matter? I always ask.

    By the second or third 'message', I always point out the fact that my profile indicates that I'm married. One cared, a couple went silent, the rest indicated that they were good with that, and some also promised discretion. I was pleased to see that several of the girls also indicated they were married (and one was involved with a 'girlfriend') - situations that made me a little more comfortable that they wouldn't turn around and try to blackmail me.

    But that last item kept me from going forward with any of the new talent on SA, despite the wonderful pictures. I ended up back at AM, where the women are often less nubile (though often more interesting) - and are just as concerned with keeping everything on the QT as I am. That I don't have to 'buy' them, makes the relationship just that more comfortable for me; not to mention economical.

    Quote Originally Posted by Robert1744  [View Original Post]
    Hey ya'll -.

    I have dabbled in the SD world with both good and bad experiences, but I've been out of it for about a year and thinking of jumping back in.

    As I do that, I am also perusing Secret Benefits in addition to SA. Here's the thing, my SB profile is literally empty. There's no pic, no blurb, nothing. And yet, I get a bunch of messages from various young women initiating contact. Can I surmise that if the SB women are initiating things with nothing to go on, they're a little more experienced in the game, perhaps even semi-pro? When my SA profile was empty at first, this never happened over there. I was curious if there were any general differences between the women on the two sites.

    Also, since I last dabbled in the arrangement world, I got married. It's great, but I just can't stop that young pussy. Do any other of you married guys find that listing your marital status hurts your chances or decreases the opportunities? If I do proceed with another arrangement, I am going to pursue it in another town, as I firmly believe you don't shit where you eat.

    Any thoughts on doing this stuff while married (apart from judgement and psychoanalysis) would be welcomed. Thanks!

  9. #441
    I have no experience with Secret Benefits so I can't speak for that. In general though I would just remind you that there are all types on these sites. You'll figure out who is who after a few convos with those that interest you. On SA though there are a lot of legit girls. Because of that some will state in their profiles 'No Married Men' while most others don't care. IMO the selection is so great that you can put it in your profile and just move on if it matters to the girl. Beware though that if you find the wrong type of girl she MAY use that info against you for $. Just use your common sense and you should be fine. Good luck!

    Yaya.

    Quote Originally Posted by Robert1744  [View Original Post]
    ...As I do that, I am also perusing Secret Benefits in addition to SA. Here's the thing, my SB profile is literally empty. There's no pic, no blurb, nothing. And yet, I get a bunch of messages from various young women initiating contact. Can I surmise that if the SB women are initiating things with nothing to go on, they're a little more experienced in the game, perhaps even semi-pro? When my SA profile was empty at first, this never happened over there. I was curious if there were any general differences between the women on the two sites.

    Also, since I last dabbled in the arrangement world, I got married. It's great, but I just can't stop that young pussy. Do any other of you married guys find that listing your marital status hurts your chances or decreases the opportunities? If I do proceed with another arrangement, I am going to pursue it in another town, as I firmly believe you don't shit where you eat.

    Any thoughts on doing this stuff while married (apart from judgement and psychoanalysis) would be welcomed. Thanks!

  10. #440

    Observation / question

    Hey ya'll -.

    I have dabbled in the SD world with both good and bad experiences, but I've been out of it for about a year and thinking of jumping back in.

    As I do that, I am also perusing Secret Benefits in addition to SA. Here's the thing, my SB profile is literally empty. There's no pic, no blurb, nothing. And yet, I get a bunch of messages from various young women initiating contact. Can I surmise that if the SB women are initiating things with nothing to go on, they're a little more experienced in the game, perhaps even semi-pro? When my SA profile was empty at first, this never happened over there. I was curious if there were any general differences between the women on the two sites.

    Also, since I last dabbled in the arrangement world, I got married. It's great, but I just can't stop that young pussy. Do any other of you married guys find that listing your marital status hurts your chances or decreases the opportunities? If I do proceed with another arrangement, I am going to pursue it in another town, as I firmly believe you don't shit where you eat.

    Any thoughts on doing this stuff while married (apart from judgement and psychoanalysis) would be welcomed. Thanks!

  11. #439

    Scam alert update

    Couldn't find her info, but she just rejoined. Iamjenny11. Beware.

  12. #438

    Scam alert and another time waster

    Ashblueeyes01. Time waster. Had the digits and several messages back and forth, then went silent.

    Scam. Jenny something thru SA. Would only communicate thru hangouts, so I go get it. Some nice convo and pics set-up a M&G. Onirmed, then when I'm on my way, she hits me for this hook-up I'd. Legit MeetUp I'd. Info she provides is no help and google is no help, except seems to be a scam.

    PM me if you need details, but just be on the lookout. She seemed TGTBT and likely is.

  13. #437
    Quote Originally Posted by SkinJr  [View Original Post]
    I have seen it both ways with arrangements concerning up front disclosure of amount and 'do you low ball or go ahead and pay up'. I struggle with both. I feel I scare some girls off talking amounts and I do not want to pay too much but I also realize what these girls are doing and what I would have to pay up going any other route be it BP or civie.

    What I really wanted to comment on was the statement that you could always reduce the amount. I have been doing this for a long time. I don't invest the time or brain power that most guys commenting on here do but I have been around. And I have read the Richmond forum for years before everyone knew about it. In the words of Hollywood 'you can never go back'. Even my long long term sb (we were basically dating in some aspects) that I had a one year pause in hookups wouldn't let it go without comment and bad attitude that I slightly cut the amount.

    You can never come down and it work out well.
    Yeah HG also if I remember reading correctly had a $ maximum and deducted any expenses that occurred during the date from that $. So if that works then decreasing an arrangement after time can be done, depending on the girl and the relationship. I've done it a couple of times onlong term sb's. Again it depends on the relationship you have. I also depending on the girl pay a higher arrangement for the first meeting (fc) and advise them its a one time deal and if they want to continue then its at a lesser amount. I usually drop it by $ and have around a 75% return rate on that. There are varying strategies, game plans, to this sd / sb game that myself have a hard time believing actually works but there is always exceptions to the rules. I have also used the rule anytime I think this is more than a transaction cut the $$ completely and see if they still stick around.

  14. #436

    You can never come down

    I have seen it both ways with arrangements concerning up front disclosure of amount and 'do you low ball or go ahead and pay up'. I struggle with both. I feel I scare some girls off talking amounts and I do not want to pay too much but I also realize what these girls are doing and what I would have to pay up going any other route be it BP or civie.

    What I really wanted to comment on was the statement that you could always reduce the amount. I have been doing this for a long time. I don't invest the time or brain power that most guys commenting on here do but I have been around. And I have read the Richmond forum for years before everyone knew about it. In the words of Hollywood 'you can never go back'. Even my long long term sb (we were basically dating in some aspects) that I had a one year pause in hookups wouldn't let it go without comment and bad attitude that I slightly cut the amount.

    You can never come down and it work out well.

    Quote Originally Posted by JohnHandCock  [View Original Post]
    I never talk arrangements until the last of the m / g. If we are both in agreement to move forward then every aspect of the arrangement is discussed. We both know what to expect. I find that if this is done then she is not wondering what she gets out of the deal or if she is going to be completely stiffed. To many girls complain about being taken by guys who leave little to nothing at all. I certainly have never worked a job not knowing what I was being paid and doubt very few here would either. I also ask while setting up a m / g that if things go well if she is able to go to the fc afterwards. This gives her a heads up that she might need to allocate more time than just for a m / g. As far as the $$$ goes a true sb definitely deserve more than what you pay a BP girl for an hour. I hear so much about game playing into this but your mutual beneficial arrangement is number 1 on most of their list. They can fuck whoever they want for free, so your personality comes in 2nd in this sport. If things are good between you then later down the road you can decrease your arrangement if she wants to keep seeing you. Girls are learning that promises of something steady are just that. Most guys negotiate with promises of being steady but usually ghost after the first or second meeting. So the girls who are doing this for side money now have learned to up their prices, take the bigger offer, and if he never shows again its no loss. Just some of my thoughts on the subject.

  15. #435

    Intel

    Have an M&G with Ashleymashley.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-74bc6e5f7e12

    Anyone seen her? Any intel is appreciated.

+ Add Report
Page 1 of 30 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 ... LastLast

Posting Limitations

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
rubmaps

www.rubmaps.com

Page copy protected against web site content infringement by Copyscape