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  1. #5876

    4 July

    May the fourth be with you!

  2. #5875

    Tough call

    Quote Originally Posted by Jsmw1980  [View Original Post]
    After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.

    So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?
    I've been in and out of the hobby for 20 years and have avoided this exact problem until recently. I'd really like to retire from the hobby and am not opposed to being with someone that also wants out. You do have to take a step back and examine the situation from as unbiased of a position as you can manage. Do you do more than just visit for play time? Do you have things in common outside the bedroom? Similar likes / dislikes? Does SHE call YOU to do things "off the clock"? Do your friends / family know her? Do you know hers? Relationships are a two-way road, and both have to work to make them happen no matter how / where you met and the relationship started. Just because someone says "I love you" doesn't mean it's romantic live-with-you-forever material.

    If you find you're the one doing all the work and dreaming then there's your answer. Nobody knows that except you, and her. Communication is the make or break for any relationship. You've got to talk about it together. Be prepared for "I love you but I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now. " That's what I got, and I know what that means. It means it's all business. She wants the regular income and will do what it takes to keep the green rolling in. If that's what you get too, then I highly recommend you get the relationship thoughts out of your (big) head, enjoy your time together for what it is (play), and consider spending more time with others for a fresh perspective. I. e. It's "time to move on". They WILL suck you dry financially if you let them. YOU are in control, don't let them break your heart! Don't let the little head do all the thinking!

    It's a really tough call when our emotions get involved. Best of luck, I hope it works out like you want!

  3. #5874

    Backpage and CC

    Had it comfirmed that BP is not accepting that evil plastic number but will take the new fake currency of Bitcoin.

  4. #5873

    1st of the Month!!

    Have you noticed girls responding quicker today?? First of the month, rents due & baby daddy didn't pay his child support AGAIN!! Does that makes us surrogate dads?? LOL They always go for the "bad boys" & then run to the good guys to bail them out. Not sure I qualify as a "good guy" considering my habits, but at least I take care of my kids!! End of rant, easy hunting today.

  5. #5872
    Quote Originally Posted by KaintuckMan  [View Original Post]
    Yes the women will suck you dry if you let them!
    That's what I pay them to do Kain. LOL.

  6. #5871

    Absolutely

    Quote Originally Posted by IslandDreams  [View Original Post]
    You already told us the right answer, the good ones all play the role, No one will come back if they don't first have the skills and secondly make you think they are into you and the session. You know the gig for them is regular cash flow from people they have seen before.

    Keep seeing her and others but think with your big head not your little, even if she tells you she loves you like no one else, don't believe for a minute she is not telling everyone that. After all they are adult entertainers, and seems to be a good entertainer.

    No reason to get out of the hobby, but with all due respect after 10 years in the hobby you should already know all of this.

    Good luck.

    Island Dreams.
    You are right I am sure. I do know these things but I guess I needed to be reminded.

  7. #5870

    Money talks!

    Yes the women will suck you dry if you let them! Some may be wanting to change their life but only with the wealthy! LOL.

  8. #5869
    Senior Member


    Posts: 169

    Feelings

    Quote Originally Posted by Jsmw1980  [View Original Post]
    After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.

    So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?
    These girls will tell you a lot of bull shit. I see a I love you comeing from her soon. Then a let move in if you love me you would want a place for us to spend every night. She may not even take money from yon weeks at a time. And keep her real drug habit from you till one day she gets nail or maybe you are with her and the cops find a crack pipe on her. If there good they can do all of this there will even be fake crying. Main thing you may be spacial to this girl but I would take all my emotions out of it and try find out what her real emotions are. And the other Big thing find out why she is see all of the guys (maybe habit). And yes she will tell that your the only one is fucking. Wish both of you all the best of luck.

  9. #5868

    Amen brother it is all about them and the bills

    Quote Originally Posted by IslandDreams  [View Original Post]
    You already told us the right answer, the good ones all play the role, No one will come back if they don't first have the skills and secondly make you think they are into you and the session. You know the gig for them is regular cash flow from people they have seen before.

    Keep seeing her and others but think with your big head not your little, even if she tells you she loves you like no one else, don't believe for a minute she is not telling everyone that. After all they are adult entertainers, and seems to be a good entertainer.

    No reason to get out of the hobby, but with all due respect after 10 years in the hobby you should already know all of this.

    Good luck.

    Island Dreams.
    JUst had one in a TXT say it was all about her her benefit and her CAUSE and she wasnt about to change for a guy who offered to spoil her and treat her like a princess. Keep your money and use it WISELY and don't think with your little friend down below. The good ones are masters at making you think you are the one and only until Ben and Ulysess run out then you are the old story and the hunt for them begins over again. Just sayin.

  10. #5867

    You know the answer brother

    Quote Originally Posted by Jsmw1980  [View Original Post]
    After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.

    So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?
    You already told us the right answer, the good ones all play the role, No one will come back if they don't first have the skills and secondly make you think they are into you and the session. You know the gig for them is regular cash flow from people they have seen before.

    Keep seeing her and others but think with your big head not your little, even if she tells you she loves you like no one else, don't believe for a minute she is not telling everyone that. After all they are adult entertainers, and seems to be a good entertainer.

    No reason to get out of the hobby, but with all due respect after 10 years in the hobby you should already know all of this.

    Good luck.

    Island Dreams.

  11. #5866
    Quote Originally Posted by Jsmw1980  [View Original Post]
    After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.

    So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?
    Hey teammate keep doing what you are doing. Tomorrow is not promised. I have been in this hobby both here and abroad for many years and I have had several ATFs. Got one now as a matter of fact. However, do not stop checking out something new every now and then. It will keep it all in prospective. Finally since you have a SO do not forget to enjoy those times with her too regardless of who you are thinking about. SMO.

  12. #5865
    Quote Originally Posted by Cooperman  [View Original Post]
    Don't sell yourself short, Mojo. You're pretty heartless. . . LOL
    You and my ex are both right in a way, if someone pulls my chain enough I can be one heartless SOB. LOL.

  13. #5864
    Quote Originally Posted by MojoGuy  [View Original Post]
    I wouldn't be too concerned about it myself. You spend that much time with someone you obviously like them. If you like them you will become friends and when you become friends you will care about them. When you care about someone you will think and worry about them. I have one that I feel that way about but it doesn't necessarily mean I want to spend the rest of my living days with her. It just means I'm not the heartless SOB that my ex-wife said that I was, that's all.
    Don't sell yourself short, Mojo. You're pretty heartless. . . LOL

  14. #5863
    Quote Originally Posted by Jsmw1980  [View Original Post]
    After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.

    So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?
    If you are happy seeing her, keep seeing her. No one can tell you what is ultimately the best thing to do. We are not in your head or hers. There is a right answer; but no one but you and her has it. You may have to at some point buck up and start a conversation. I don't envy you that. It could go really well, or really south. You won't know until you have it. I wish you the best. But, you will figure it out eventually and all will be well in time.

  15. #5862

    Enjoy Her

    Quote Originally Posted by Jsmw1980  [View Original Post]
    That cracked me up. I guess I'm not completely heartless. For sure, in the hobby I've met girls that I don't even remember and couldn't care less but this one is different.
    You have found "the one" that fits everything that you like in a girl which is a rarity in this business. In my opinion you have been sent a special gift from the hobby gods and instead of questioning it I would recommend that you enjoy it for what it is and while you can. If you're like me there will come a day when I'm a very old man and the memories of that very special girl will still bring a little shit eating grin to my face and my SO will have absolutely no idea what it's for.

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