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  1. #3625

    Spot on

    Quote Originally Posted by MammieJammer  [View Original Post]
    First of all let me say that I don't claim to be an expert on anything. But with the number of scam artists drug addicts providers that have aggressive pimps or handlers who are on Backpage or other sites I thought it would be good to post some information for people who might be new to the Hobby or who are considering taking it up so here goes.

    Do your research read this forum and others like it carefully. If you can't find information on your own post a request in the Forum or pm Senior members for advice maybe they have seen this person and can give you some insight.

    When you decide to see a provider do a drive-thru of her location look things over if things look sketchy or they're thugs or derelicts hanging out in the parking lot then drive on forget it.

    When you get ready to go inside take nothing with you except your car keys and the donation. If it's my first time to see a girl and there's no good reviews of her I personally take a pocket pistol but I would not necessarily recommend that it's just my own personal preference.

    When you get to the door if the person that answers is not the girl in the pictures I will typically just walk unless she happens to be quite attractive.

    When you go inside stand in a spot where you can easily get to the door and make your exit if need be. Before any discussions of the menu or money ask her to show you her pussy the complete bare thing if she does you know she's not a cop.

    Ask her if she minds if you check her room and bathroom for other people if she does walk straight out the door.

    Now discuss the menu with her you want to be sure that the things you want to do are available before you give her any money if the menu Isn't to your liking or she doesn't want to discuss it walk right out the door.

    If the menu is to your liking then it's time to discuss the length of the visit and the price unless that's already been discussed and agreed to.

    My rule is no payment up front if the girl complains about that and most will show them the money let them see it and explain to them that you've been burned too many times by bad service and to pay at the end is an incentive for good service. If she still complains or doesn't want to do the session then it's up to you you might decide to give her half up front or simply walk out the door but if you decide to pay up front be sure that everything agreed upon is to your liking and that you have a good feeling in your gut if not just walk.

    Once you're in agreement be sure that the door is locked and the chain on behind you.

    When you take off your clothes be sure to place them neatly by the bed where you can get to them with great ease. If you have brought a pistol or other protection with you be sure that when you fold your pants that they are on top and that you have easy access to that pocket.

    When you're finished and your clothes are on as you exit the room and approach your car if you have brought a pistol or other protection with you have your hand on it be completely alert looking around all the time and don't decrease your vigilance until you're in the vehicle the doors are locked and the motor started.

    Continue to keep your wits about you as you leave the parking lot and head for home this may help you avoid cops or other problems. Hopefully if everything went well you had a pleasant session and the next time you see the girl if you decide to things will be a bit easier. I hope this helps and that other members will chime in as well. MJ.
    Definitely spot on MJ! Heck I even learn a little something from this, even though I typically do 90% of those things. I really run with "gut feeling" alot, but tofft often makes for an uneasy gut. I have made them come out and meet me on occasion. I do like to arrive early drive around and scope adjacent Parking areas within view. I'm looking for folks sitting in their vehicles, any vehicles with tinted windows, etc. As a rule of thumb, if a new ad pops up, I give a while and see how long it runs and see the consistency of it before toftt. Searching the phone # helps alot too. So far, I've not had a bad experience. I sometimes spend days or weeks doing my homework before I ever go the one unless I've gotten feedback from a trusted source.

  2. #3624

    Haha great

    Quote Originally Posted by Manda1979  [View Original Post]
    Hey there is one in Huntsville at the adult emphorem beside visions. You have to go around back and go upstairs. Think the door fee is like 7 bucks. Not sure who goes to it. Have heard it's a lot of gay guys. Hope that helps.
    Was just curious if that even exists anymore. But will probably more and likely will be not a woman in there.

  3. #3623
    Quote Originally Posted by MammieJammer  [View Original Post]
    First of all let me say that I don't claim to be an expert on anything. But with the number of scam artists drug addicts providers that have aggressive pimps or handlers who are on Backpage or other sites I thought it would be good to post some information for people who might be new to the Hobby or who are considering taking it up so here goes.

    Do your research read this forum and others like it carefully. If you can't find information on your own post a request in the Forum or pm Senior members for advice maybe they have seen this person and can give you some insight.

    When you decide to see a provider do a drive-thru of her location look things over if things look sketchy or they're thugs or derelicts hanging out in the parking lot then drive on forget it.

    When you get ready to go inside take nothing with you except your car keys and the donation. If it's my first time to see a girl and there's no good reviews of her I personally take a pocket pistol but I would not necessarily recommend that it's just my own personal preference.

    When you get to the door if the person that answers is not the girl in the pictures I will typically just walk unless she happens to be quite attractive.

    When you go inside stand in a spot where you can easily get to the door and make your exit if need be. Before any discussions of the menu or money ask her to show you her pussy the complete bare thing if she does you know she's not a cop.

    Ask her if she minds if you check her room and bathroom for other people if she does walk straight out the door.

    Now discuss the menu with her you want to be sure that the things you want to do are available before you give her any money if the menu Isn't to your liking or she doesn't want to discuss it walk right out the door.

    If the menu is to your liking then it's time to discuss the length of the visit and the price unless that's already been discussed and agreed to.

    My rule is no payment up front if the girl complains about that and most will show them the money let them see it and explain to them that you've been burned too many times by bad service and to pay at the end is an incentive for good service. If she still complains or doesn't want to do the session then it's up to you you might decide to give her half up front or simply walk out the door but if you decide to pay up front be sure that everything agreed upon is to your liking and that you have a good feeling in your gut if not just walk.

    Once you're in agreement be sure that the door is locked and the chain on behind you.

    When you take off your clothes be sure to place them neatly by the bed where you can get to them with great ease. If you have brought a pistol or other protection with you be sure that when you fold your pants that they are on top and that you have easy access to that pocket.

    When you're finished and your clothes are on as you exit the room and approach your car if you have brought a pistol or other protection with you have your hand on it be completely alert looking around all the time and don't decrease your vigilance until you're in the vehicle the doors are locked and the motor started.

    Continue to keep your wits about you as you leave the parking lot and head for home this may help you avoid cops or other problems. Hopefully if everything went well you had a pleasant session and the next time you see the girl if you decide to things will be a bit easier. I hope this helps and that other members will chime in as well. MJ.
    Would have saved me some time and money if I seen this months ago.

  4. #3622
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    Posts: 71

    Glory holes

    Quote Originally Posted by XMasterBaiter  [View Original Post]
    Any such things as "gloryholes" anymore? Found a spot in mobile about 2 years ago didn't last long thought 🤔.
    Hey there is one in Huntsville at the adult emphorem beside visions. You have to go around back and go upstairs. Think the door fee is like 7 bucks. Not sure who goes to it. Have heard it's a lot of gay guys. Hope that helps.

  5. #3621

    Curious

    Any such things as "gloryholes" anymore? Found a spot in mobile about 2 years ago didn't last long thought 🤔.

  6. #3620
    Quote Originally Posted by MammieJammer  [View Original Post]
    First of all let me say that I don't claim to be an expert on anything. But with the number of scam artists drug addicts providers that have aggressive pimps or handlers who are on Backpage or other sites I thought it would be good to post some information for people who might be new to the Hobby or who are considering taking it up so here goes.

    Do your research read this forum and others like it carefully. If you can't find information on your own post a request in the Forum or pm Senior members for advice maybe they have seen this person and can give you some insight.

    When you decide to see a provider do a drive-thru of her location look things over if things look sketchy or they're thugs or derelicts hanging out in the parking lot then drive on forget it.

    When you get ready to go inside take nothing with you except your car keys and the donation. If it's my first time to see a girl and there's no good reviews of her I personally take a pocket pistol but I would not necessarily recommend that it's just my own personal preference.

    When you get to the door if the person that answers is not the girl in the pictures I will typically just walk unless she happens to be quite attractive.

    When you go inside stand in a spot where you can easily get to the door and make your exit if need be. Before any discussions of the menu or money ask her to show you her pussy the complete bare thing if she does you know she's not a cop.

    Ask her if she minds if you check her room and bathroom for other people if she does walk straight out the door.

    Now discuss the menu with her you want to be sure that the things you want to do are available before you give her any money if the menu Isn't to your liking or she doesn't want to discuss it walk right out the door.

    If the menu is to your liking then it's time to discuss the length of the visit and the price unless that's already been discussed and agreed to..
    Thanks for the reminder MJ. I actually copied your post and kept it. I know for for me after awhile I become complacent and get comfortable and that's when you get bit.

  7. #3619

    Well Said

    Quote Originally Posted by MammieJammer  [View Original Post]
    First of all let me say that I don't claim to be an expert on anything. But with the number of scam artists drug addicts providers that have aggressive pimps or handlers who are on Backpage or other sites I thought it would be good to post some information for people who might be new to the Hobby or who are considering taking it up so here goes.

    Do your research read this forum and others like it carefully. If you can't find information on your own post a request in the Forum or pm Senior members for advice maybe they have seen this person and can give you some insight.

    When you decide to see a provider do a drive-thru of her location look things over if things look sketchy or they're thugs or derelicts hanging out in the parking lot then drive on forget it.

    When you get ready to go inside take nothing with you except your car keys and the donation. If it's my first time to see a girl and there's no good reviews of her I personally take a pocket pistol but I would not necessarily recommend that it's just my own personal preference.

    When you get to the door if the person that answers is not the girl in the pictures I will typically just walk unless she happens to be quite attractive.

    When you go inside stand in a spot where you can easily get to the door and make your exit if need be. Before any discussions of the menu or money ask her to show you her pussy the complete bare thing if she does you know she's not a cop.

    Ask her if she minds if you check her room and bathroom for other people if she does walk straight out the door.

    Now discuss the menu with her you want to be sure that the things you want to do are available before you give her any money if the menu Isn't to your liking or she doesn't want to discuss it walk right out the door.

    If the menu is to your liking then it's time to discuss the length of the visit and the price unless that's already been discussed and agreed to.

    My rule is no payment up front if the girl complains about that and most will show them the money let them see it and explain to them that you've been burned too many times by bad service and to pay at the end is an incentive for good service. If she still complains or doesn't want to do the session then it's up to you you might decide to give her half up front or simply walk out the door but if you decide to pay up front be sure that everything agreed upon is to your liking and that you have a good feeling in your gut if not just walk.

    Once you're in agreement be sure that the door is locked and the chain on behind you.

    When you take off your clothes be sure to place them neatly by the bed where you can get to them with great ease. If you have brought a pistol or other protection with you be sure that when you fold your pants that they are on top and that you have easy access to that pocket.

    When you're finished and your clothes are on as you exit the room and approach your car if you have brought a pistol or other protection with you have your hand on it be completely alert looking around all the time and don't decrease your vigilance until you're in the vehicle the doors are locked and the motor started.

    Continue to keep your wits about you as you leave the parking lot and head for home this may help you avoid cops or other problems. Hopefully if everything went well you had a pleasant session and the next time you see the girl if you decide to things will be a bit easier. I hope this helps and that other members will chime in as well. MJ.
    I've visited quite a few ladies from mobile to chattanooga, never had a problem but I still pretty much do everything you do.

  8. #3618

    Toftt

    Quote Originally Posted by Voltron94  [View Original Post]
    Generally speaking, it's not a great policy to openly say you won't TOFTT. Some mongers consider it selfish because TOFTT is a big risk that benefits other users of the forum. That is what makes it safe for others to play. So be open to it, but obviously use your best discretion about when to TOFTT or not.

    I've TOFTT before, but I am also really picky and tend to stick with just a few providers. Right now, I have some reliable options that know how to keep me happy when I decide to play.
    I can and do TOFTT from time to time. There's some things that I do first however I try to determine if her photographs are real or fake this can be done by checking the photograph on a Google Search and also by checking it on the Tineye Site. I try to look closely at their photographs to see if there's any evidence of needle marks on their body or drug paraphernalia lying about the room. Also where they're located in or around the city maybe reason not to see them. I always try to avoid areas that are high crime and seedy locations. My next move is to call the girl I want to hear her voice I want to hear if she sounds High or if she has an obvious attitude or if she talks like a street Thug all those things are turn-offs for me and good clues that the service will be bad. If everything up to and including the phone call has went well I generally go with my gut if I have a decent feeling about it I'll go and see the girl if not I just write her off until I can see a review on her. These are General guidelines for seeing someone for the first time that's new and not reviewed at least that's the way I go about it hope this helps a little bit. MJ.

  9. #3617
    Quote Originally Posted by Chubbington  [View Original Post]
    All of MJs tips are winners.

    I have a personal rule that I'm never visit someone until I've seen a couple of reviews. I never TOFTT that way (even with bad reviews I might take a chance on someone). There are maybe 3 sr members I PM with that I'll see someone on their recommendations but I know we have similar tastes and history.

    I've never had a visit go wrong, as long as you don't count 1 provider hopped up on something where she wouldn't shut up for 45 min, and the crap she talked about wanted me to keep my dick far away from her.

    The closest I had to a true bad experience was my first in call. Midnight at a dumpy motel on the Pkwy. She gave me the wrong room num (off by 1 door) on 2nd floor. When I left I could feel 3 sets of eyes because I was paranoid and should have parked closer. It was 90% my imagination but from that I learned to be early and scope out the area first.
    Generally speaking, it's not a great policy to openly say you won't TOFTT. Some mongers consider it selfish because TOFTT is a big risk that benefits other users of the forum. That is what makes it safe for others to play. So be open to it, but obviously use your best discretion about when to TOFTT or not.

    I've TOFTT before, but I am also really picky and tend to stick with just a few providers. Right now, I have some reliable options that know how to keep me happy when I decide to play.

  10. #3616

    Mammie Jammers Tips

    All of MJs tips are winners.

    I have a personal rule that I'm never visit someone until I've seen a couple of reviews. I never TOFTT that way (even with bad reviews I might take a chance on someone). There are maybe 3 sr members I PM with that I'll see someone on their recommendations but I know we have similar tastes and history.

    I've never had a visit go wrong, as long as you don't count 1 provider hopped up on something where she wouldn't shut up for 45 min, and the crap she talked about wanted me to keep my dick far away from her.

    The closest I had to a true bad experience was my first in call. Midnight at a dumpy motel on the Pkwy. She gave me the wrong room num (off by 1 door) on 2nd floor. When I left I could feel 3 sets of eyes because I was paranoid and should have parked closer. It was 90% my imagination but from that I learned to be early and scope out the area first.

  11. #3615

    A definition I can understand!

    Quote Originally Posted by BriannaBliss  [View Original Post]
    Hey Chubbs 😘.

    It is kinds true what the person below me said haha because just about anyone can claim they are "slim thick".

    BUT REALLY. I am a good example of "slim thick".

    Not someone that could be described as 100%thick. But overall petite or average, with hips and booty.
    Thick in the hips and booty. Gotcha Brianna. Although I never thought of yours as thick. Something to hold onto, sure, but I visualize thick as more. I don't know, chunky I guess. Maybe its all relative to what people have seen along the way.

  12. #3614

    Slim thick

    Quote Originally Posted by Chubbington  [View Original Post]
    Anyone got a provider-perspective definition of "slim thick" that I see in ads?

    Best I can think of is "pics are from when I was smaller, but double that now".

    I'll admit I'm out of touch. It took me 2 weeks to put together "dome" was "head".
    Hey Chubbs 😘.

    It is kinds true what the person below me said haha because just about anyone can claim they are "slim thick".

    BUT REALLY. I am a good example of "slim thick".

    Not someone that could be described as 100%thick. But overall petite or average, with hips and booty.

  13. #3613

    Slim / Thick=Nice legs with a double stuffed muffin top!

    You see gals like that everywhere.

    Gams to die for and a spill over that covers their belt!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chubbington  [View Original Post]
    Anyone got a provider-perspective definition of "slim thick" that I see in ads?

    Best I can think of is "pics are from when I was smaller, but double that now".

    I'll admit I'm out of touch. It took me 2 weeks to put together "dome" was "head".

  14. #3612

    "Slim Thick"?

    Anyone got a provider-perspective definition of "slim thick" that I see in ads?

    Best I can think of is "pics are from when I was smaller, but double that now".

    I'll admit I'm out of touch. It took me 2 weeks to put together "dome" was "head".

  15. #3611

    Tips on the Hobby

    First of all let me say that I don't claim to be an expert on anything. But with the number of scam artists drug addicts providers that have aggressive pimps or handlers who are on Backpage or other sites I thought it would be good to post some information for people who might be new to the Hobby or who are considering taking it up so here goes.

    Do your research read this forum and others like it carefully. If you can't find information on your own post a request in the Forum or pm Senior members for advice maybe they have seen this person and can give you some insight.

    When you decide to see a provider do a drive-thru of her location look things over if things look sketchy or they're thugs or derelicts hanging out in the parking lot then drive on forget it.

    When you get ready to go inside take nothing with you except your car keys and the donation. If it's my first time to see a girl and there's no good reviews of her I personally take a pocket pistol but I would not necessarily recommend that it's just my own personal preference.

    When you get to the door if the person that answers is not the girl in the pictures I will typically just walk unless she happens to be quite attractive.

    When you go inside stand in a spot where you can easily get to the door and make your exit if need be. Before any discussions of the menu or money ask her to show you her pussy the complete bare thing if she does you know she's not a cop.

    Ask her if she minds if you check her room and bathroom for other people if she does walk straight out the door.

    Now discuss the menu with her you want to be sure that the things you want to do are available before you give her any money if the menu Isn't to your liking or she doesn't want to discuss it walk right out the door.

    If the menu is to your liking then it's time to discuss the length of the visit and the price unless that's already been discussed and agreed to.

    My rule is no payment up front if the girl complains about that and most will show them the money let them see it and explain to them that you've been burned too many times by bad service and to pay at the end is an incentive for good service. If she still complains or doesn't want to do the session then it's up to you you might decide to give her half up front or simply walk out the door but if you decide to pay up front be sure that everything agreed upon is to your liking and that you have a good feeling in your gut if not just walk.

    Once you're in agreement be sure that the door is locked and the chain on behind you.

    When you take off your clothes be sure to place them neatly by the bed where you can get to them with great ease. If you have brought a pistol or other protection with you be sure that when you fold your pants that they are on top and that you have easy access to that pocket.

    When you're finished and your clothes are on as you exit the room and approach your car if you have brought a pistol or other protection with you have your hand on it be completely alert looking around all the time and don't decrease your vigilance until you're in the vehicle the doors are locked and the motor started.

    Continue to keep your wits about you as you leave the parking lot and head for home this may help you avoid cops or other problems. Hopefully if everything went well you had a pleasant session and the next time you see the girl if you decide to things will be a bit easier. I hope this helps and that other members will chime in as well. MJ.

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