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  1. #14374

    Worth It?

    I think there are a number of factors that you have to consider when deciding if the bowl is for you:

    - How much time are you willing to spend (searching, messaging, meeting, wining, dining, etc)?

    - How much money are you willing to spend (entertainment, gifts, hotel, allowance, etc)?

    - How good is your game? (age, conversation, looks, etc)?

    - How good are you at sensing and dealing with BS (streetsmarts and patience)?

    - What type of relationship are you looking for (escort, utr, companion, classic SB, SB / GF, long term, short term, etc)?

    - How often do you want to meet?

    - How discreet do you need to be (what's at risk. SO, job, reputation, etc)?

    Depending on your answers, the bowl may or may not be for you.

    If you have limited time, limited money, little game, lack street smarts or get overly frustrated with BS, are looking for a one time hook-up and need to be very discreet than the bowl is probably not for you.

    The more time, money, street smarts, patience and game you have the better your experience will be. There is no better option for finding beautiful young women willing to be "girlfriends for hire" with all the associated perks....and risks.

    I personally have had great experiences, but not without plenty of flakes and a few attempted scams as well. I take breaks for periods of time just to make sure I'm still in control. The bowl can be a very addicting and expensive hobby.

    Stay safe and have fun!

    Quote Originally Posted by TennisStud90  [View Original Post]
    I've always been on the edge seeking a SB. I always find myself thinking, is it worth it? Between signing up for SA, setting up an, account, searching for a SB, sending messages out to what I imagine is a large number of SBs, getting responses on just a few of the messages, meeting up with the SB, flakes, having different financial goals in mind, etc. Is it really worth it in the end?

    I am sure it differs depending on the time commitment and the financial resources, but does anyone have any input?

  2. #14373
    Quote Originally Posted by FanRat  [View Original Post]
    As far as the other tags, the ones I leave out of my search are monogamous, online only, platonic, etc.
    I actually don't do any filtering on the searching. Like, look at this girl:

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-14ac8d441113

    Her username is "ExxxoticSlut" and yet she has the "platonic" tag for what she's looking for. I'm not sure why she picked Platonic, but I wouldn't want to accidentally filter out someone who refers to herself with that 'S' word LOL.

    Likewise, I used to filter for just Slim / Athletic girls, but then I realized many girls' body perception is so messed up that you'll miss some girls who are actually slim but think they're curvy or have a few extra pounds. And I'd filter out black and mixed girls, but then noticed some girls who are like half Japanese and half Chinese will put themselves as mixed instead of Asian and I'd miss them.

  3. #14372
    Quote Originally Posted by TennisStud90  [View Original Post]
    I've always been on the edge seeking a SB. I always find myself thinking, is it worth it? Between signing up for SA, setting up an, account, searching for a SB, sending messages out to what I imagine is a large number of SBs, getting responses on just a few of the messages, meeting up with the SB, flakes, having different financial goals in mind, etc. Is it really worth it in the end?

    I am sure it differs depending on the time commitment and the financial resources, but does anyone have any input?
    Thats solely up to you and your expectations. Its time consuming depending on what your looking for. Spend the bucks and try it for a month. If your not hooked then don't renew. There is something for everyone there.

  4. #14371

    Worth It

    I've always been on the edge seeking a SB. I always find myself thinking, is it worth it? Between signing up for SA, setting up an, account, searching for a SB, sending messages out to what I imagine is a large number of SBs, getting responses on just a few of the messages, meeting up with the SB, flakes, having different financial goals in mind, etc. Is it really worth it in the end?

    I am sure it differs depending on the time commitment and the financial resources, but does anyone have any input?

  5. #14370

    SA statistics

    Since its an active topic here, I have been using it for a couple years and I got a message from a very intriguing SB today I decided to renew my SA membership and will post some statistics so folks can maybe get an idea of how things happen on SA.

    I hadn't renewed my membership in 2 months and had 13 messages in my inbox that I couldn't read. 4 were responses to messages I sent a couple months ago and the rest were girls who found me by search. Of the 4, 1 has since deleted her account but the other 3 show as active within the last couple days. I replied but the replies have not yet been read. That is typical. It can sometimes take days for an SB to read messages and sometimes they never do.

    Of the other 9 only 1 fits my preferences so I responded to her. The others I probably won't respond to.

    Over the last couple months even though I did not have premium I did log in and search periodically and had 37 profiles that I had favorited. Of those 34 have been active in the last 2 days so I messaged all of them.

    So far 10 of the messages have been read but only 1 response. Luckily the response is from the very intriguing young lady that spurred me to renew my membership!

    My guess is that I might get responses from 2 of the other 9 if I'm lucky. Hard to say how many of the others will be read or responded to but I'm sure the percentage will be quite low.

    Ill try to keep posted what my stats are as I have time.

  6. #14369

    Bizarre.

    Quote Originally Posted by TwoDirection  [View Original Post]
    Years ago I heard a reoccurring guest on Howard Stern called Will The Farter tell Howard he was supporting himself by doing phone FinDom of gay guys. It's this dumb thing where guys get off on girls just verbally abusing them over the phone and demanding they send the girl money for nothing. In other words, she financially dominates him. Controls his wallet. I'm sure there are some straight men in this world who get off on that, but I also feel certain they are very few and far between. I think some girls are picking it from the list of available tags without an understanding of what it means. Maybe they're submissives and think it means they're saying they want a man to dominate them in return for cash.

    If I see the tag in a profile, I treat it like it's not there. If the profile texts also says anything about not meeting in person or money for nothing, I move on.
    I guess I just don't get the fetish thing at all. I have heard of some pretty strange things that guys will pay money for that, to me, arent sexually stimulating at all. And I don't get the "pay platonic" thing either.

    As far as the other tags, the ones I leave out of my search are monogamous, online only, platonic, etc.

  7. #14368

    Really hard to say.

    Quote Originally Posted by TwoDirection  [View Original Post]
    Before I hid my profile, 100% of the girls who messaged me that had found me via searching were girls I had no interest in. I don't think the girls who are attractive are doing any searching because they don't need to. They're getting plenty of messages already. And if they do any searching, it's probably for millionaires under 30 or some other criteria that wouldn't match my profile anyway.

    So having a publicly searchable profile brings nothing but unwanted messages in my experience.
    I concur that most of the girls that have contacted me without me first at least favoriting (sp?) them or sending a message are not girls that I'm interested in. But I don't think it has anything to do with whether my profile is hidden or not. Most of them arent even in the area or the US for that matter.

    And I agree that the "better" ones already have their inboxes overflowing. I think that's the primary reason so few respond. My guess is that since they are amateurs they are looking for something specific to make the idea more palatable. Tall, under 40, tattoos, income. Whatever.

    In any case I favorite any that fit my search criteria and message the ones that seem legit and possibly interested in someone like me. I get about a 10% response rate by message but few of those turn in to a first date and fewer in to an arrangement. Still better percentages than the bar scene especially for someone my age looking for someone much younger.

  8. #14367
    Quote Originally Posted by JohnHandCock  [View Original Post]
    I don't get the hidden profile theory in that it doesn't allow girls that would be interested to see your profile.
    Before I hid my profile, 100% of the girls who messaged me that had found me via searching were girls I had no interest in. I don't think the girls who are attractive are doing any searching because they don't need to. They're getting plenty of messages already. And if they do any searching, it's probably for millionaires under 30 or some other criteria that wouldn't match my profile anyway.

    So having a publicly searchable profile brings nothing but unwanted messages in my experience.

  9. #14366
    Quote Originally Posted by FanRat  [View Original Post]
    I've seen that on the Interests part of SB's profiles and have wondered what does it mean?
    Years ago I heard a reoccurring guest on Howard Stern called Will The Farter tell Howard he was supporting himself by doing phone FinDom of gay guys. It's this dumb thing where guys get off on girls just verbally abusing them over the phone and demanding they send the girl money for nothing. In other words, she financially dominates him. Controls his wallet. I'm sure there are some straight men in this world who get off on that, but I also feel certain they are very few and far between. I think some girls are picking it from the list of available tags without an understanding of what it means. Maybe they're submissives and think it means they're saying they want a man to dominate them in return for cash.

    If I see the tag in a profile, I treat it like it's not there. If the profile texts also says anything about not meeting in person or money for nothing, I move on.

  10. #14365
    Quote Originally Posted by EvilTmp  [View Original Post]
    See my post a couple of days ago. I believe the balance has recently shifted on SA in favor of the girls. You get the run-around because she's talking to a hundred SD at once and she couldn't care less to blow you off.

    And don't tell me "there are xx SDs in my area and yy SBs". Most guys hide their profile from the public search and only reach out when they see something they like. For every public SD there are 3, 5, or 10 that are hidden.
    Well the easy solution is when one feels that the site is no longer viable for whatever reason then I wouldn't renew my membership. The site isn't for everyone and when it becomes to much effort or there is to much competition that I couldn't compete with then I wouldn't give them my $80 a month. I don't get the hidden profile theory in that it doesn't allow girls that would be interested to see your profile, the theory that they only come out for girls that they are interested in doesn't work because its not BP so if the girls not interested or a flake then you have wasted whatever days one has been in hiding. Remember the girls have to wade through the same amount if not more flakes, scammers, texting buddies and pic collectors. Jmho or 2 cents.

  11. #14364
    See my post a couple of days ago. I believe the balance has recently shifted on SA in favor of the girls. You get the run-around because she's talking to a hundred SD at once and she couldn't care less to blow you off.

    And don't tell me "there are xx SDs in my area and yy SBs". Most guys hide their profile from the public search and only reach out when they see something they like. For every public SD there are 3, 5, or 10 that are hidden.

    Quote Originally Posted by PauFord  [View Original Post]
    I'm seeing a lot of this too. More so than in the past. Particularly odd to me too because usually they are the aggressors, pushing to trade digits and set up a meeting then they give you the run around.

    Had one that this went on for over a month and she started hitting me up for stuff. Needed a tow truck, order her food delivery, etc. (of course I didn't oblige, if she can't bother to show up, eff her!

    I think it's in part because word of mouth is spreading about SA. More and more girls are on it because their friends told them about it or whatever. They aren't serious about doing and they have no idea what it really entails.

    So yes. SA is good but it's a lot of work, far more than expected or should be.

  12. #14363

    Lots of new SBs on SA lately

    Has anyone noticed how many new SB profiles there are the last few days on SA? Seems like 10 or 12 a day in the RVA. Is it just becoming more acceptable? Are they fakes bc I haven't paid for premium in the last couple months? Is it a holiday thing?

    What do you think?

  13. #14362

    FinDom

    Quote Originally Posted by EvilTmp  [View Original Post]
    FinDom is a sad joke on stupid girls. It's an urban legend. And please don't point me to some internet article done by someone that gets paid pennies per piece to write click-bait all day.

    Imagine that, a girl reads this crap and instantly thinks "I love to treat people like crap and I love money, cha ching". Doesn't it sound just too perfect for any vapid, talentless girl out there? It's almost as if someone sat down and thought "what could I come up with that would make any stupid girl giddy with excitement". There's a reason those girls never post for long: there's no takers for this non-sense. Think about it, these girls posting that stuff get all these messages saying "haha, you're dumb". If they even got a real 'findom pig' once in a while they would stick around for the payoff. But in the end all they get is mild abuse and eventually just go away.
    I've seen that on the Interests part of SB's profiles and have wondered what does it mean?

  14. #14361

    Same Here.

    I'm seeing a lot of this too. More so than in the past. Particularly odd to me too because usually they are the aggressors, pushing to trade digits and set up a meeting then they give you the run around.

    Had one that this went on for over a month and she started hitting me up for stuff. Needed a tow truck, order her food delivery, etc. (of course I didn't oblige, if she can't bother to show up, eff her!

    I think it's in part because word of mouth is spreading about SA. More and more girls are on it because their friends told them about it or whatever. They aren't serious about doing and they have no idea what it really entails.

    So yes. SA is good but it's a lot of work, far more than expected or should be.

    Quote Originally Posted by JackCat58  [View Original Post]
    I love this thread and have gained valuable knowledge and the bowl has been good for me as I have experienced on average 19 to 25 yr old women and you can never tire of that. The recent bullshit lately though from these SBs is getting on my last nerve. Just last week in making arrangements for meetings this week: SB Yes Tuesday works, about 7:45, confirm over the weekend and she says yes as long as she can find someone to watch her dog. WTF?? Needless to say it's Tuesday and never heard back from her. Another SB: Yes Wednesday is great, look forward to meeting you! Gave me her # and we texted all afternoon one day and then try to co firm with her over the weekend. Crickets are still chirping! Yesterday, another SB: yes I can probably meet this evening for a bit. Me: Great, I can meet anytime after 7:30. Reads it in a few minutes after sent. Crickets there too! . Today is the Kicker. Going to meet 19 yr old at Starbucks at 6:30, messaged at 4 pm to set up, she says that works. Get there, 6:45 still no cute 19 yr old SB showing up, messaged her. SB Oh I at last minute went to dinner with my family, be back at my car soon. Then she asks are you there? Me: yes but if it's going to be a bit, let's do another day. SB I am so sorry. Me pissed and I proceed to ask why a message from her would not have been the nice thing to do to let me know what was going on so we could have met later or another day and basically told her I was tired of SB's crap. Then she says: honestly, I was real busy all day with lots to do and I forgot. I reminded her that she just confirmed at 4 pm and that was 2. 5 hours ago, not all day. Anyway, seems to be getting worse with many of them. It's a numbers game I know, just don't get how interested they are one minute then blow you off the next. Anyone else experiencing this?

  15. #14360
    FinDom is a sad joke on stupid girls. It's an urban legend. And please don't point me to some internet article done by someone that gets paid pennies per piece to write click-bait all day.

    Imagine that, a girl reads this crap and instantly thinks "I love to treat people like crap and I love money, cha ching". Doesn't it sound just too perfect for any vapid, talentless girl out there? It's almost as if someone sat down and thought "what could I come up with that would make any stupid girl giddy with excitement". There's a reason those girls never post for long: there's no takers for this non-sense. Think about it, these girls posting that stuff get all these messages saying "haha, you're dumb". If they even got a real 'findom pig' once in a while they would stick around for the payoff. But in the end all they get is mild abuse and eventually just go away.

    Quote Originally Posted by FScott  [View Original Post]
    Brothers,

    I am seeing more and more of this kind of thing. FinDom bullshit! Is it just wishful thinking on the SB's part, or is this a real perversion that is slowly going to spoil the Bowl? Any of you poor bastards out there who want to pay to be verbally humiliated, whatever you're quoted, I'll do it for half!

    All the rest, keep up the good work!

    Scott.

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-84c1fa4250db

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